发现越来越多年轻情侣，二十一，二岁就已同居。
其中一对情侣分手，男的搬出去，女的哭哭啼啼，甚至借酒消愁。两个月后，她又和另一个男生在一起。
不，我不是反对同居，我只是从他们的心态来看这种趋势。现在的女孩，似乎认为没有爱情就活不下去，急着和男友一起生活。一旦分手，又急着找代替品。先前讲的女孩，长得很漂亮，原本可以“吊高来卖”，但是她等不及了。
其实，女生们即使有了男友，也应该有自己的时间和空间。她们可分配一些时间给家人和朋友，或做些义工，或到深山静修。同居了，就没那么自由。
再说，情侣不同居，思念对方也是一种情趣吧。
或许我老了，不懂年轻人想些甚么。。。
Agree of your points.. i m old too..
ReplyDeletekeeyit
ReplyDeleteDon't say like that. You are YOUNG!
agree that people should have their own space, and do not throw all eggs into a basket, let's make the life colourful and meaningful!
ReplyDelete9494...
ReplyDelete干嘛那么紧张啊....>.<"
If you are old, I am positively ancient.
ReplyDeletePeople should not be in a hurry to live together. We all need time living alone to find ourselves and learn who we are and what we are about. We also need time to know another person before trying to make home with them. Sounds stressful to me, and asking for trouble.
玲别依依
ReplyDeleteApparently some people think romantic love is the only thing that can make their life meaningful.
迷迭香
I think that is the trend. If you are not 紧张 you are too old!
panda
I never know you can read Chinese!
"现在的女孩，似乎认为没有爱情就活不下去..."
ReplyDeleteThat is too stereotyping I suppose.
But I agree with the following sentence.
"女生们即使有了男友，也应该有自己的时间和空间。"
It's sad to see some girls devoting 101% to their boyfriends and suffer in pain when they breakup. :x
day-dreamer
ReplyDeleteI am not stereotyping, but generalizing.
Girls devote 101% to their bf, and expect bf to do the same to them. That's where the problem lie. The girl mentioned in my post complained that his ex-bf spent too much time playing computer game. My cousin's gf also complained that he worked late. Anyway, they are now married.
I can't read Chinese, but online translation like "Babel Fish", though not great, do allow me to get some idea of what is written.
ReplyDeleteWhat to say. People nowadays are so open minded and wanna share their bodies with the other half. I am also too old to accept that.
ReplyDeletepanda
ReplyDeleteI see...
jam
I am not against pre-marital sex, but some people are too fast...
我们俩都老了。。。唉
ReplyDelete每个人的心境不同啊。。或许他们觉得同居在一起的时间多了，了解也可同时加深。。
ReplyDelete但我还是接受不到。
我是kolot人。。。哈哈
你来我的部落还会面对问题吗？
nice day ^^
christine
ReplyDeleteYou are still young...
我的天地
I am not against 同居, but I feel that young people are too 紧张. As I am writing this, another lady has found a new love, just 6 weeks after she broke up with her ex-bf.
I think IE is OK when surfing your page, but I prefer Firefox.
Haha, but it's not easy for one to realize or believe that one can live on their own or can survive when they have their own personal time aka lonely!
ReplyDeletekai
ReplyDeleteGotta agree with you. Love is blind.